Discover how self-motivation, sincerity, and influence can help you take control of your life. An inspiring excerpt from Jim Rohn’s book on leadership, success, and personal development.
The book Take Control of Your Life: Unleash Influence, Prosperity, and Power by Jim Rohn, recently published by ap! (ACT and Politon), is an invitation to change through self-motivation and conscious daily choices. In the excerpt below, presented exclusively for Careers&Business, the author guides readers toward developing leadership skills and gaining control over their own lives, so they can leave a mark on those around them while also achieving their personal goals.
Exclusive excerpt:
Some people have an incredible zest for life, a strong desire to live beautifully and succeed, while others seem to adopt an apathetic attitude, letting things happen on their own, hoping that somehow everything will work out. I don’t know exactly what makes the difference between people, but I have always been fascinated by observing those who are inspired to make the most of life. Self-motivation is essential for overcoming challenges and difficulties.
It comes as no surprise to anyone that life is a challenge. Therefore, it is very important to be aware of this challenge, to recognize the pressure, the constant drive, because it exists every day. And this is precisely the meaning of life: to accept the challenge, to put down deep roots, to become as strong as possible, to accept everything that comes your way and transform every experience into what you want it to be; to give your very best, to strive with all your strength, to think deeply, to read wisely, to live beautifully, and to fight through all adversities. This is the true challenge, and this is what makes life worth living, this is where its value lies: in the struggle for high ideals, in the attempt to build something unique out of your life.
One of the most wonderful experiences a person can have is the power to influence, to convince someone of an idea, to persuade them to buy a product or consider a service, to inspire them to adopt a way of life, an idea, a company, a business, or an enterprise.
INFLUENCE
Influence is one of the most important experiences in life: the chance to influence others, their thinking, their future, perhaps even their lives. From being a manager to a chief executive and even a parent, we all have, in certain ways, the chance and the opportunity to influence someone.
You can become an influential person in an informal, unplanned, or intentional way by learning essential skills. This is the subject I address in this book: acquiring the skills needed to influence others, whether you want to change their way of thinking, sell them a product, present them with an idea, convince them to join a business, or simply help them live a better life, in other words, leadership skills.
Here is the list of the three preliminary skills that lead directly to the five pieces of the “life puzzle,” which are identified and discussed throughout the book:
- Sincerity
- Ideas
- Inspiration
The first is sincerity. To achieve something important and valuable, we must begin with sincerity. I assume you are sincere in your intention to learn how to take control of your own life; otherwise, you wouldn’t be reading this book. You wouldn’t have made the effort or gone through everything necessary to reach the point where you take the time to read what I have to say, and I appreciate that. So always start with sincerity. I hope you will also feel my sincerity in wanting to honor your time, effort, and consideration.
However, sincerity is not a guarantee of truth. You should not make the mistake of saying that someone is right just because they are sincere. It is possible to be sincere and still be wrong. I hope you will find me both sincere and accurate, but you will have to decide for yourself what the truth is. Here is the key: measure sincerity with the standard of sincerity, and truth with the standard of truth. Do not measure truth by the standard of sincerity.
In a world where many choose to wait, the real difference is made by those who take action. Jim Rohn’s lessons remind us that success is not accidental, but the result of conscious choices, discipline, and the desire to constantly evolve. Whether you want to become more influential, develop your leadership skills, or build a meaningful life, the first step always begins with you. Choose to take action today.
ap! (ACT and Politon) is one of the most important players in the Romanian book market. Specializing in high-quality nonfiction, the publishing house has brought to the local market a number of authors who have made a global impact, such as Tim Ferriss, Robin Sharma, Tony Robbins, Wayne Dyer, Steve Harvey, Gino Wickman, and many others. At the same time, ap! (ACT and Politon) is the Romanian publisher under whose imprint the largest number of audiobooks have been released locally. Launched in 2014, the publishing house has introduced over 300 audiobook titles in Romania, many of them international bestsellers that have changed thousands of lives.
ap! (ACT and Politon) believes in continuous development and offers Romanian readers titles covering a wide range of subjects, including personal and professional development, business, entrepreneurship, spirituality, and wellbeing. The publisher’s titles are available in both traditional formats and as eBooks, MP3s, or audiobooks, allowing readers to enjoy them at any moment in their lives.
